The Motivated Mummies
For busy, stressed out Mums, who just don't have time to fake it any more!
What if you could stop worrying what people think, stop trying to please everyone, and start growing your business?
The DOUBLE DO'S DOUBLE DON'T'S SOLUTION PLAN is your fast track to feeling good about promoting your business AND yourself.
(Without having to worry what Aunt Mabel is going to say to your Dad at Sunday dinner, or what the nosy Mum from your sons class will say at the school gate).
The Double Do & Double Don't Solution Plan, get immediate access to The People Pleasing Workshop>>
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The thing is, you have a great business idea. You have skill and ability, and people need you.
But you have a big problem .... You are so worried what other people think, trying to guess what they need from you, you are not prioritising or promoting yourself, which means your business is not a business, it is a hobby.
You think because you are busy you are going to make a profit, but that is not the case.
A profit comes from sales, and you are avoiding them because of one of the
4 people pleasing traps.
YES YOU MY FRIEND, ARE A PEOPLE PLEASER!
You may not think so, but I have seen ladies like you ; kind, caring and thoughtful. You will do anything to make others feel better. Sound familiar?
Worrying about other peoples feelings will not take your bank balance out of the red.
Is this you?
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A Mum who puts other people's feelings before her own
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Someone who dwells on comments and remarks long after they've been made
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Crazy busy but still say yes to things you don't have time to do
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Agree with people to avoid conflict
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Beat yourself up when your high expectations are not met
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All of the above!
Tammy Rolfe
Owner and founder of The Motivated Mummies
Author, Speaker, Coach & Mum!
As seen on Sky Tv . 2019 Award winning Confidence Coach
Creator of The People Pleaser Workshop
I have been there!
Walking on eggshells, afraid to put my prices up, scared to promote my business on social media for fear of what others would think....not even what they would say, but what they would think!
I was denying my children holidays they deserved because of the thoughts OTHER PEOPLE MAY HAVE. That makes me feel sick to write .
I thought that I had to keep everyone happy by giving them what they asked for, regardless if it was in my best interests. I gave away freebies, done special offers and felt guilty for charging the full price.
Every day was a struggle within my own mind.
Do you know what I mean? When your own mind is against you life is very hard!
I did have profit, but it was a hard slog physically, because I had to work double hours to earn my money, and emotionally, battling with my mind.
When I finally realized that actually I can be a nice person and still make money, please my clients and be successful, that is when my business really took off!
Everything Changed!
* I realized I was not responsible for other people feelings
* I could charge my worth and still hold my head up high
* By stating true facts and not pussy footing around people they benefited too
* I could say no to requests that did not move my business forward or benefit me or my family
* I was allowed to have an opinion without having to justify myself
* I could lower my own expectations without sacrificing my professionalism
* I was allowed to take time out and just do nothing if that's what I wanted to do!
No one else had to change a thing. I didn't have to explain anything to anyone, I didn't have to change my personality, I didn't have to create anew business plan. It was all in my head with a few small adaptions to my actions. It was way easier, than I thought it would be!
No more
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Putting other peoples emotions before my own or my childrens
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Dwelling on comments and remarks long after they've been made
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Crazy busy with things less important to my life
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Agreeing with people to avoid conflict
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Beating myself up with high expectations
Just a whole lot of an easier life! In my first week of using the Double Do's , Double Don't's,
I SIGNED UP 4 PEOPLE and saved myself OVER £600 due to not feeling like I had to please others by saying yes to them. So a total of £3000 , with no different actions apart from using my simple solutions. All in one week while I was still getting use to it.
Now I am on a mission to help you do the same, and better! Where ever you are at in your business journey you can achieve more just by learning some simple tools.
Amy Ayton
Scentsy Lead Consultant
Amy refers to The People Pleasing course as a "get rich quick scheme!" Having used the 4 step process to overcome the blocks that were holding her back, Amy's has doubled her income!
Using the Double Do's and Double Don't solution plan Amy was able to recruit her first team mate, gain 4 new customers and doubled her income, all in her first month of completing the course!
She has since gone on to recruit more team mates, gain more customers and been promoted within her company!
Press play to hear more about Amy's story. Real Mums with real results.
Natasha Albright
Wellness Advocate
Natasha always knew she was a people pleaser, but until taking the course, she didn't realise how much of a people pleaser she actually was, or what negative affects it was having on her business!
Since completing the people pleaser course Natasha has been able to hit two big milestones in her company, making her business even more successful!
In the video below Natasha speaks of how the course had a positive effect on her family life too.
She was beginning to see traits of people pleasing in her two boys, and was able to not only break her own negative habits, but put a stop to her sons going down the same path too. She also speaks of better relationships and stronger bonds, proving that you can still be a nice person after completing the course, and Natasha is one of the nicest people you will meet!
Natasha Albright : Wellness Advocate, wife, mum of two boys and a really lovely lady....still.
Press play to hear how Natasha used the 4 Step Process of the Double Do's ans Double Don't's to help her boost her income, climb the career ladder and feel much happier.
Stop wasting time and effort when it is not even getting you what you want - respect, friendship, peace, acceptance, love.
At the end of the day it is not about business, even though it has a massive effect on it, and your income.
You do what you do to be accepted, loved, wanted , and to keep the peace!
You almost definitely learnt these survival skills as a child, and for a good reason. You did what you had to do. But those days are over now, you have new skills and new tools that you can use to get all the those things AND MORE! Real connection with your true feelings, not pussy footing around others, real love, with no barriers and no waiting to be hurt, real friendship where they know the real you and can trust what you say, and the responsibility taken off your shoulders to be responsible for EVERYONES feelings! No one should have to carry that burden.
Here's what you get when you sign up to The People Pleaser Course:
Module 1 :
* Welcome to The People Pleaser Workshop
* What is a people pleaser?
* How people pleasing affects your business
* How did this even happen?
Module 2:
* Going deeper into the cause
* How people pleasing meets your needs
* How to stop worrying what people think
* Introducing the 4 Step Process
Module 3 :
* DO.....
* DON'T.........
* DO.......
* DON'T.......
* You are your biggest asset
* Action Plan
Downloads:
* How to say no nicely
* People pleasing checklist
Learn how to say no nicely
Everyone wants to be liked and thought of fondly, but when it is to the detriment of your life and business, it is time to have a rethink.
The People Pleaser Course will teach you how to say no and STILL be a nice person, yes, it is possible!
Your people pleasing habits were learnt
Understanding why you developed people pleasing habits is important for two reasons. Firstly, once you understand why you do something is it much easier to break the habit, and secondly, by understanding how pleasing develops, you can ensure you do not pass these negative behaviours onto your children. That alone is worth every penny!
Learn the 4 step process to success!
Having suffered with people pleasing for most of my life I found it fascinating to discover the causes, and excited to develop a 4 step solution plan!
The Double Do's and Double Don't's will give you the tools to break the habits and live life to the full, all while being a nice person and keeping your friends.
Are you ready to take action?
"If you want different results, take different actions" Tony Robbins
If you follow me you will hear me quote Tony Robbins a lot! I trained through his coaching program and have a huge amount of respect for his work. You can read my personal story later, at the moment it is all about you, and your story.
How would you like your next chapter to look? More of the same, or with a little twist of excitement, positivity and joy?
If you have heard enough and you are ready to take action, click the Buy Now button and you will be taken straight to purchase the course. As soon as you complete the simple questions you will have instant access and you can start listening to your first lesson today! The course will now be yours to complete in your own time, and with constant access, you can listen and re listen any time that you need a little boost.
Access Now!Some kind of magic!
Sarah Michelle ONeil
Wellness Warrior
"Just wanted to tell you that as I stopped myself justifying today , instead of feeling guilty and that guilt eating away at me all day, I felt powerful and strong!!
Thank you 
I genuinely felt like it was totally okay and totally fine to do that!! Some kind of magic going on xx"
Show Me The Magic!
Free from guilt and worry, Sarah can now focus on being the Wellness Warrior that she is!
Confidence in Business
Are you a mum in business?
The Motivated Mummies has a range of ways we can help you to succeed.
- A free facebook group to help you be seen and known for what you do
- An online membership that walks you through each step of building your business, giving you confidence and tools along the way
- Actual meet ups for local mums to learn and practice their new skills, as well as making lifelong friends.
- 1-1 coaching for those who are serious about achieving their dreams.
For more information and support in, and out, of business email Tammy: [email protected]
Start Living Your Life Today!
Only £148
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Full access to the online course
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Downloads to help you succeed
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Access to the free FB group Be Seen and Known
What are people saying about the People Pleasing Course?
"The people pleasing course has helped me so much as I used to find it so hard to just say 'NO' and it made my life harder.. I would definitely recommend this course 110%!!"
"Honestly the people pleasing course is like you are actually speaking to me!! It’s amazing. So eye opening and I’ve wrote a tonne of notes"
"I'm working through the people pleasing course right now. I had always considered myself a 'nice person' rather than a people pleaser but at some point I crossed that line into people pleasing territory.
It's absolutely exhausting, emotionally & physically. But since starting this course I have been able to recognise these traits in myself and start to take action to overcome them. While still being a nice person. It's so liberating! Thanks so much for all your help and advice Tammy"
Marina Stepanova
Author, Founder of Resourceful Counselling, Counsellor , psychotherapist and mum of two!
I always feel very privileged when someone in 'the industry' uses one of my courses and finds value, especially when they are as highly respected as Marina.
Marina talks of her own personal journey, and how the people pleaser course is helping her get deep into the roots of her own patterns, before using the tools to release her from the 'pain' of trying to please everyone around her.
Marina recommends the course to anyone who feels tired and exhausted , those who have forgotten what their own needs look like and for those living other peoples lives.
I love how Marina completely embraces the importance of passing on positive habits, and does this so well with her two young children. She can now add people pleasing solutions to her ever growing list, and watch proudly as her children gain even more self assurance.
Tammy Rolfe
Author, Speaker, Coach & Mum!
She is the owner and founder of The Motivated Mummies
Tammy organizes regular workshops around the country for a specially-chosen group of motivated mummies, especially those who run businesses. She recognizes the genuine need for an effective balance in managing your home and business at the same time.
For over 20 years, Tammy suffered from severe anxiety, depression, and social phobia. She overcame all these, and with a deep understanding of the pain and frustration they bring, she has dedicated her life to working alongside motivated mummies to provide the support they and their families need to live their best life. She can easily relate to the adverse effects a mother’s health and overall happiness could have on the family unit.
In overcoming those dark years, Tammy used 5 simple and unique techniques to transform her state of social phobia, anxiety, and extremely low self-esteem into a whole essence of confidence and inner peace. By comparing her past experiences with her current state, she believes everyone deserves to be happy, hence her cause towards helping thousands of women and teens live a better and fulfilling life.
Coming through the teachings and training of Tony Robbins, Brendon Burchard, Dani Johnson, and Raymond Aaron, Tammy has been able to equip herself with an immense wealth of knowledge at her fingertips. She willingly channels this into the lives of the businesswomen she works with, assisting them in creating harmony and balance in their world.
Now, as a mother, you can have it all, you get to be a great mum and a successful businesswoman, at the same time.
To book your one to one with Tammy and take advantage of this amazing offer click the buy now button.
Get immediate access to the People Pleaser course then book in to discuss your people pleasing traits and let Tammy help you dive even deeper to give you a personal and tailor made plan of action.
The decision is yours
Our lives are made up of thousands of decisions, some big some small. These decisions create the life we live.
I know how much your life can be positively affected by doing the Double Do Double Don't solution's plan so if you have read this far, there must be something in you that says it is right for you. So ask yourself.....if not now, when?
NOW!Start Living Your Life Today!
Only £148
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Full access to the online course
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Downloads to help you succeed
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Access to the free FB group Be Seen and Known
